I was asked to blog about what it's like to turn 22. So, get ready for an epic story. No, really though. Let me try to examine...
My
list of things to do before I turned 22 is a little embarrassing to look at. There are things on there that I did do, things that I never did, and things that I don't really care to do anymore.
I am proud of some of the things I've accomplished in the past year, however, I feel like there is so much more to get going on in the coming year.
Though I haven't committed to any new-year’s resolutions yet, a few things spring to mind for this new year of my life:
I want to be more thankful and less judgemental of the amazing people in my life. I want to grasp the amount of joy there is to be had. I need to share more of myself and reach out to others. I want to make a positive difference to other's lives, without really trying or thinking about it.
I want to be trusted to be an honest and reliable source of friendship. I want to love selflessly.
There's been so much in my life lately that makes me thankful and feel blessed; I don't want to forget about it next week or next month.
I want to remember everything that is awesome every day.
Example:
I went home, to Mom's, for my Birthday weekend. I took pictures of
Tara's pregnant belly and was shopping with her and mom, got to visit a little with
Laura and Leif, met
Ruger, caught up with Moxie, was excited with the news of a new baby born to share my birthday with, was spoiled with meals at home and out, and got to come home to a boy who always outdoes himself in showing me how much he loves me. I will miss him a lot while he's away working for the next few months . . . it will be different for us to be miles apart again, so hopefully the time goes by fast.
Today, at work, there was a handsome older man who was talking to the lady behind him in line at the checkout. He had grabbed a chocolate from the isle and mentioned that his wife would be pleased to find that treat hiding at the bottom of the bag. He smiled so big. And he pulled out his wallet to show the lady in line a photo from his wedding day, and proudly proclaimed as he pointed to her, "That’s my wife!" When it was his turn, he showed it to me too. And it was the sweetest little black and white photo, with a great looking couple standing next to each other.
Simple. In love.
He told me, "She keeps my train on the tracks".
It was so sweet, and really melted my heart. I want to be that proud, that supportive, that loud about how lucky I am.
I have said "I" a lot in this post, so I'm gonna sign off now...
But please enlighten me: what are you thankful for and what will you do more of this year... ?
love,
ayla